I'm the kind of person who was never embarrassed or sad to be single. I always embraced it. The freedom. The peacefulness. The buffet!
Until recently, I was single and proud!...
The longer I'm single, however, the more I start to notice that to a single man; a single woman is an interested woman!
What the logic behind that is, who knows!... But then again, we are talking about men here, and they are from Mars!
There has been so many occasions where I have had to scrummage through my bag to find anything that resembles a ring to throw on my finger just so that the man I was in mid conversation with would get the hint that I am not interested
Attention all Females: Number 1 Rule of Thumb - Unless you fancy him... you have a "boyfriend"!
Attention all Males: No Means No (click if you would like to be reminded of WHY)
My dear male friends & readers... sorry to be a wet blanket here, but the power of persistence is a MYTH!!!... If a women is not interested, then the last place it will lead you to is her heart (or for most lower-organ-thinking men, her bed), and instead you'll find your self in court for what you would call persistence and what we would call harassment
So I will state this again, and keep doing so until I stop having to do the 'ring flip'*... Not every woman is going to be interested in you, so get over your self and change that mentality. In saying that though, it doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you, it just means that she's simply not interested in you and that she's probably not right for you so separate your sense of self-worth from how women perceive you and MOVE ALONG
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xo
*Ring Flip: when a woman would flip her ring only to expose the band part in an attempt to indicate that she is "engaged" or in more sever cases... "married"
